All I'm saying lil beaver is there has got to be a problem between these two. The b/f is grumbling (maybe even angry?) whether you choose to listen or not. There must be a reason. My own opinion is I think your being used. There is a problem and you are in the middle whether you think so or not. I think there is more here then you can say since you seem to ignore what is happening. She's telling you there nothing wrong. Oh Yea I don't think so. Why don't you get the guys side? If it was me and my g/f friend doing this she would either stop or I am gone. It's not like your taking her for a 30 minute ride around town. It seems to me your spending hours and I will guess to say the whole day with her. I want to be with my girl not her going with some guy all the time. Nope sorry don't cut it with me. You do what you like as you are enjoying it but I'm telling you I think you are heading into trouble. That's the controversy I speak of. Why have this guy pissed/angry at you over "his" girl. That's why I say find yourself you own woman to ride with much safer. Hope what I have typed makes sense. One last thing, I have many girl friend's also and would always spend some time to talk and catch up maybe have a drink or two maybe even lunch but that's it if they are married or have a b/f friend I move on, I don't need the hassle. Bottom line leave her as a friend "at work" go out and find you own woman and make your own fun. This is my opinion and you can take it as you wish but I think one day this guy is going to loose it and guess who is going to be on the receiving end? Tread very carefully.