Cinderella
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prayers sent for a speedy recovery and hopes that this solves all her problems. Prayers also for you to provide allthe love and care she needs at this time !
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so glad to hear things are well and not what you were anticipating. Stress can be a dangerous thing in itself....and i know you know what im talking about. Its very hard to deal with loved ones being ill or even the thought that something serious couldbe wrong. God always listens, never be afraid to talk to him
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promised I'd fill ya in on yesterdays happenings
Cinderella replied to Cinderella's topic in Watering Hole
the detctives asked me if i thought he may have ever been over the neighbors were H was assualted with her.....my honest opinion was no.....but whos to say something hasnt happened to him somewhere or sometime along the line. I dont have the answers but that doesnt make it right for this mom to start head hunting -
This was rather devastating.I have kind of worked my way thru it for now but Dale is pretty messed up over it. To tell the whole story, about a week before the incident happened to haylie, she had went over to the neighbors ( the new ones to neighborhood who live on the other side of the scum) to see if their little boy could play he is 4 1/2...his mother told haylie no she couldnt play with him for a while becuase he said she had touched his private part.....she came home told me i was i was blown away.I questioned her and she told me she accidentally touched him with her foot while they were swimming in our pool. I had intended to go talk to the mom and then everything happened and it got put on the back burner . The boys mother had stopped over after she found out what happened to haylie and we talked about it and it was my understanding that all was cool.....an innocent mishap while two young kids are playing. She was pretty flipped out about what happened to haylie, hugged me etc. Yesterday our detective calls me and wants to talk to me. Apparently the little boy is acting out and making accusations....he said he was in our house in H's bedroom and she took her clothes off in front of him and touched his private thru his pants. And then that Dale and I came in and took their picture with a camera. I was floored.....i said we didnt take his picture and the detectives and i went thru my camera and all the pics on my pc to make sure. I also said anytime he was in the house I shooed em back outside cause i make them play outside. of course then came more questions.....do you have porn on your computer? specifically child porn....NO.......would you let our experts go thru your computer if need be......YES. Dale was sleeping so they wanted to talk to him when he got up. He went down to the station and got the same questions more or less. They appologized for having to do this after all weve been thru but explained anytime a child makes a statement they have to check it out. Apparently they even sent the boy down for a forensic interview like Haylie had to do. They told us theye were a lot of discrepincies as to what the parents said he said and what he actually said at the interview. We can certainly understand the need and urgency to check this out but man o man can you imagine what we are feeling now. After we both finished they pretty much told us that most likely this is the last we will hear from them on it, I dont think they believe that any of it happened and that the MOM is a little off and over paranoid and may be putting ideas in the boys head. We dont understand why this woman would want to hurt us or accuse us of stuff...its like something happened to Haylie so now she is sure something has happened to her boy. Everytime things start to settle down a little someone throws another log on the fire. I questioned H again about all this and in fact the detective told me not to press her about it after i told him i asked her again.he doesnt want her worrying about anything else. so apparently they think this is a dead subject....lets hope so....Ive had enough. so this upset just caused us to say the h*** with it lets stay home....and the weather looks like rain most of the time for eureka springs and i dont need to be riding that far back and forth in the rain after the hospital time so here we sit again. My daughter is here from ohio now..so maybe dale and i will at least get a night out alone sometime this weekend. Id like to just run away and forget it all, but i know that doesnt work.
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well we cancelled our reservations for eureka springs completely...so if anyone was still looking for a room at edelweiss our dbl queen room is now available. very disapointed we had to do this but.......but something happened today ( a big slap while we're already down) which i will fill ya in on later that made up our minds not to go. this is getting to be a like Peyton Place here in our home and im ready for the movie to end.
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me thinks ive just been around here way too long.....im beginning to understand how tweetybirds brain works........I knew immediately he was bluffin and his wording was careful ...(either that or "great minds think alike" ) sounds like maybe it was a good idea to get one "that looks good hanging in the garage" :stirthepot::rotfl::rotfl:
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would this per chance be a man powered kind of BIKE ???????????
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LMAO!!! Thanks M !!!! I WAS IN NEED OF A GOOD LAUGH
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:whistling:I am not saying a word............ other than i am so glad to be home......after not sleeping for 3 days i slept hard last night and already had a nap this morning.........feeling a little weak and light headed yet. Have to go and see the orthopedic surgeon tomorrow and keep a close eye on the injury. We do have an issue with the knee because i happen to have psoriasis on that knee where it was injured and if any of you know anything about psoriasis...the body thinks there is injury in those areas and goes on overload to heal it and that is why the skin erupts and it is actually the skin sloughing off dead skin and making new skin in over production...you would think this mite be good and would help heal my laceration faster but i guess it could cause healing problems and get into the bone. as of yet i still havent called and cancel the reservations for edelweiss,,,,,,,guess im still clinging on the hopes of going.......who knows what will happen next day or two...maybe we could come down fri and stay til sunday, instead of coming down thurs.
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very funny very funny.......... actually im surprised hubby didnt come up with something like that.......
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he just had to go and tell ya all what a dumb thing i did:8: feeling better today, was getting concerned about infection cause i have been running a low grade fever for 2 days. They put me on a second antibiotic yesterday so now im taking 2 different ones so i would think my whole body would be free of anything by the end of the week.. I have never ever had stitches before..i wait til im , well this age to do something dumb like this. I couldnt even stand to look at it when i did it it was so gross..... it was full of dirt and stones and little wood pieces. Dale sat there taking pictures of it before they sewed it up.. but you know what they say.........."you cant keep a good woman down" :whistling: but man have i been down lately.......
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try this... No Sound in Internet Explorer Resolution:- 1.Open Control Panel. 2.Double Click to open Sounds and Audio Devices. 3.Click Sounds tab. 4.Scroll down to Windows Explorer, which is present under the Programs events. 5.Select Complete Navigation and Start Navigation. Click OK/Apply
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hope you all have a marvelous time ! one of these years we hope to make this one......and meet some of you northerners we have never gotten to meet would be great to get away for the long weekend to try to clear our heads a little right now, but we just cant afford that 10 hr trip right now. but one of these days...............
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yes guys i would love to have some more info on this group.......though my daughter is safe and the guy is behind bars all the support we can get is good. my biggest fear at this time is that they reduce his bond and he is released....it is my honest opinion that the guy is safer where he is now than to get out:whistling: there is no way i could physically stop dale....and having some sort of support ( or backup) might be good.
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good for you awesome! they put their people thru some pretty intensive stuff, training wise, back ground checks and i believe you have to go to meetings and ride with them for a yr before you are full fledged. I am impressed with what ive read so far.
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believe me i understand everyones concern that other children may have been victims....but at this point it is in our best interest to let the police and the childrens services check this out. Firstly there really arent any other young children in direct neighborhood they are mostly older people.....a cpl with young kids JUSt moved in on the other side of him and i know there hasnt been any contact. my concerns are his young niece whom H always went over there to play with as H told me when she told me everything else that he had shown his privates to them both one other time........the police and childrens services have been given this info and know i am concerned and will pursue it when times right.
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I ran across this organization today on the net......and then funny thing when we went to counceling today and she asked if we had a support system here....i said no family here and very few friends since we havent lived here long......BUT i said and proceeded to tell her about this group which she was impressed by you all( and come to find out she used to ride) and very glad we had some special people. well she happened to mention BACA then and i told her i had been reading about them.....she thought they may be a good group to get ahold of for some support. http://bacausa.com/
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good grief......... Ol' Momma of the dirty drunkards MC... dale is Ratso of the heavy horses
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thank you my mind just didnt want to grasp the language they used to explain this when i looked it up online. i understood the bond reduction and i pray to God they dont allow this.
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what exactly does it mean that the guys attorney has file a Motion for Discovery ? he also put in a motion for bond reduction...... i keep checking the public court records daily to see if anything new shows up and these entries were added to the record yesterday.
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I was standing at the sink a bit ago washing some dishes and just thinking..day dreaming.. started thinking about all the awesome things people from this site have done for others, the way they help expecting nothing in return, the way they dig in their sometimes empty pockets to help someone else in need...the way they arent afraid to ask for prayers when they have a issue in their life or the way they arent ashamed to share problems and fears and illness and happiness and sadness with everyone here. some people here i have never met or may never meet, but they have touched my life.....I have cried here, laughed here, even gotten mad here ..Ive lost special people from here..been inspired from here... I have met some of the most awesome people in the world ! I just felt the need to thank you Don.....and everyone else here for all the laughs and the fun times and friends Ive made and things ive gotten to do and be part of because of this. ok you may now return to the regular scheduled program........ .....geez its tough being menopausal..your emotions sometimes control you......
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LOL TELETUBBIES.........i dont believe you made reference to them....... how bout.......... I love you....you love me.......were a happy family........ with a great big hug and a kiss from me to you...........................................
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just in case everyone hasnt seen the new thread started for this......thought i'd give it one of those shameless plugs by posting it here it is in the international rally section under rides and rallys http://www.venturerider.org/forum/showthread.php?t=26095
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awe ya had to go and mention lamberts......i want to go there so badly.........ever since dales brother moved away from springfield we havent been down there to go again...... love that place.love the food...... wish we could make it saturday
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looks like u all had an awesome time.........great pics mini....... geez i thought maybe u would wear the chrome thong camping...... wish we could have made it