Steve,
I'm sorry to hear the news. Both of my parents passed away from cancer too. At 27 yrs old I had stage 1 cervical cancer that has been in remission for a decade now. Our new roomie was diagnosed last yr with stage 3 lung cancer, he's been in full remission for almost a year without chemo or radiation. If you want the treatment he was offered and are willing to make the lifestyle changes, let me know, he'll share what the doc who treated him offered.