Figured it was past the time for an update...as a few members asked me how things were going during maintenance day....
It was a year ago that Nancy made contact with her birth family and it has been a year of a lot of firsts. First time she ever spoke with her Mother, Grandmother, Aunts, Uncles, 1/2 brothers/sister....first time she ever met any of them, first time talking to her Mother on the phone on Thanksgiving/Christmas/birthdays... the list goes on.
As you may have seen in another thread, after being together for 10 years, Nancy and I got married last Friday and had the reception at our home on Saturday. Nancy's birth mother (Norine) flew in from Edmonton on Thursday and is staying with us until this Thursday. It was amazing to have Nancy's adopted parents (Ed and Joyce) and birth other with us for the ceremony on Friday. At the reception Norine was initially surprised when VR members introduced to her told her they knew the the story.
Considering this is only the second time that Nancy and Norine have physically been together (other than at birth) the two of them act like mother and daughter that have been together forever. I'm back to work and Nancy is off this week to spend time with her mother to talk and really get to know each other....but the bond between them couldn't be stronger. I know there will be a lot of tears when Norine has to get on the plane to head home on Thursday.
After dinner last night I took Norine for a ride on my bike and afterwards the three of us sat on the deck talking. Tonight we are going to Ed and Joyce's for dinner. This week long visit with Norine is going way too fast.
I'll post some pictures as soon as I can. With Nancy and I getting married we've been in front of the camera rather than behind it.
This saga in our life has been amazing. I couldn't be happier for Nancy and Norine.