I'm still not convinced that this is something I want to tackle myself, but I would like to confidently tell whoever can tackle this what to do.
When you run power, you don't run it from the auxiliary circuit? I guess I don't understand the function of the relay. Is it a powered switch that will only allow power when it is energized? So if the relay is not energized, then the lamps are off? Kinda like a pump in a water line? Water is always available at the supply side, but you have to energize the pump in order for water to flow? Thus, there is no need to run the lamps from the auxiliary circuit, because the power to the lamps is turned off when the relay is turned off?
So, you can power the relay (pump) from some source that turns on and off with the key. The hi-lo switch... can turn the lamps on with different headlight settings. The parking lamps, so that if the bike is on, the lamps are too. I suppose you could use the turn indicators if you wanted it to flash when you turn (just an example for illustration!). I'm planning on having them always on, because it seems that people are seeing me better. If I ever want them off, there's the toggle on the lamps themselves.
I realize that I am restating what y'all have been saying all along, but I do want to understand the issues.
Thanks for your help. I really do appreciate it.