Hi Cowpuc and Eck- Just got my bike back from the Honda mechanic.
I am embarrassed to tell everyone that the problem was "Pilot Error". I had checked the fuses when replacing light bulbs in the ground effects.
Then after checking the fuses I put them back in the wrong slots and never thought about it again, leaving one open (on the Honda there is an empty slot.)The Gold wing uses one fuse for engaging the reverse and a different one to release it. Since the fuses all tested okay I never gave it another thought ( I learned a lot about my bike by trying everyones advice. Thanks again everyone!
SAM I AM