Hi Brenner,
I rode a full dressed Goldwing for a few years back in the 80's, a suzuki GS750 before that, then a full dressed honda 750 K into the early 90's. The two kids came along and riding didnt seem to be important at the time so the honda was sold. Fast forward a few years and it was time to get back into motorcycles, low and behold I like you grabbed a 750 Virago, liked the bike but it was too small and I really wanted to get back into touring bikes, a friend had an early 90's 1st Gen kinda liked the look, then he got his 2nd Gen........I found myself an 86 Venture Standard that needed lots of attention and TLC. Like yourself I took the time to get it running and stopping ok, started to ride it, yes at first it seemed a bit heavy, but as time went on I loved getting on it and going anywhere and everywhere on it, I also heard the 1st Gens were supposed to be fast, heard rumours it could pull the front wheel off the ground from a standing start....(never did try that), I didn't go looking for spots to go fast but as others have said on the highway that old girl just loved to go and it was smooth.
I guess all I'm saying is give it time, for a new rider, they can be a handful, hopefully you will grow to enjoy it......my prescription is to ride it and ride it some more, I know when I got my 2nd Gen a couple years back it took me a while to love riding it after I had been on the 1st Gen for a while.
If you want some company on a ride, just ask, we are just down the QEW in Hamilton.
Take care and I hope you work things out.