saddlebum Posted September 14, 2011 #301 Posted September 14, 2011 Hopefully she won't ride out of her comfort zone again no matter who she's with or what they want. People who ask others to ride in places/ways they are uncomfortable with really tick me off. You should always respect other's limits, especially with a brand new driver (basically). I'm so glad she was all right and is riding again. Sounds like you've made a really good friend who loves bikes as much as you do. You sure do work a lot and travel a lot. Glad you can get out and relax when you get home and nothing better than doing it with a friend. When riding other than by yourself one should always ride within the limits of the weakest rider, and without scorn, knowing you yourself (you as in general terms) were once in their shoes and and like yourself they too will improve with time and experience. On a possibly slightly harsher note a slight survivable wipe out is always good for ones inteligence, and teaches one a little respect for the toy or tool they are handling. The school of hard knocks can be a very memorable teacher, provided the leason is not too extreme, which sadly happens all too often.
autopilot Posted September 27, 2011 #302 Posted September 27, 2011 Glad she was ok! I hope she takes the lesson to heart as relates to the bf/ex. From some of what you related, he doesn't seem to be too caring when it comes to her! Will await your next.
LilBeaver Posted October 3, 2011 Author #303 Posted October 3, 2011 Well she came over today and I walked her through how to pull off the rear wheel (she does not have a garage, the tools or the know how - but we found a service manual and worked through it). She has a tire on order and should be in within the next couple of days. We have a ~550 mile ride tentatively planned for 'soon-ish' (I will fill in the details after it happens) in an area suggested by a fellow member here whether he/she knows it or not (thanks for the video of those roads, by the way - looking forward to some of that riding ). After getting her rear wheel off we talked about how nice of a day it was and unfortunate it is that she wasn't able to ride much so long story short my RSV got some exercise today... Only about 120 miles worth though. We had a rather long talk about riding and this upcoming planned ride (whether she wants to drive herself or ride with me), making sure that she stays in her comfort zone and that I don't push her out of that on the bike and whatnot. She has ridden around 400 miles in a single day on her own before so she is pretty sure that she can handle it just fine but she is going to put a lot of serious thought into it some more and we'll talk again well before we go. I am pretty sure she is leaning towards just riding this one with me since it will be such a long day and we can do some progressively longer rides to build up to going again some other time. Anyways, all is well. Still friends and still don't intend to push that anywhere else. 'Riding buddies' and friends works just fine for me. I don't need any drama right now. ... On a possibly slightly harsher note a slight survivable wipe out is always good for ones inteligence, and teaches one a little respect for the toy or tool they are handling. The school of hard knocks can be a very memorable teacher, provided the leason is not too extreme, which sadly happens all too often. Agreed, for sure. She actually talked a lot about this today while we were riding and asked lots of questions about how to handle certain riding situations, suggestions on ways to be better prepared for them, etc etc. She also mentioned (in so many words) that while she does not want to wipe out again, obviously, she knows/understands what she did wrong, how to better manage/avoid repeating it and has learned a lot about the whole situation, herself, abilities, etc. Anyways, today turned into a much longer day than I had expected and have to finish up a few things before work tomorrow morning so, everyone ride safe and I'll keep you posted so long as you care to know.
mini-muffin Posted October 3, 2011 #304 Posted October 3, 2011 Glad she has you to get the input from on what she's doing while riding. She obviously trusts you and you're opinions. Might want to change your name to yoda. :rotf::rotf:Just kidding. Hope you enjoy the ride when you get to go and we'll be waiting to hear how it all goes. Margaret
LilBeaver Posted March 13, 2012 Author #305 Posted March 13, 2012 Anything new? Oh boy... I had not realized how behind I had gotten on here. Don't worry, PLENTY of new (and good) stuff going on. I will try to get something written up in the next week or two; including some pictures. Preview: Lots of miles put on, a few trips, etc etc.
dingy Posted March 13, 2012 #306 Posted March 13, 2012 Oh boy... Lots of miles put on The bike??? Or something else???? Gary
LilBeaver Posted March 13, 2012 Author #308 Posted March 13, 2012 The bike??? Or something else???? Gary I had initially meant my bike and her bike... But since my last post there have been quite a few miles put on my truck (mid October wedding in the mid-west) and a few international flights (thanks to work) When is the wedding? :whistling: As previously stated, 15/Oct/2011. BUT, don't get ahead of yourself, it was a good friend of mine that got married
eusa1 Posted March 13, 2012 #309 Posted March 13, 2012 IS THERE A RECORD FOR HOW LONG A THREAD WILL RUN????
joboo Posted March 13, 2012 #310 Posted March 13, 2012 I started reading this from the beginning after VX1000SE asked if there was anything new, I am totally hooked, articulate and well written, cannot wait for the next installment, this could be a best seller! Go lil beaver!
KIC Posted March 13, 2012 #311 Posted March 13, 2012 I had read this a while back too and forgot about it... Figured there should be a couple of mini-bikes running around the front yard by now...
mini-muffin Posted March 13, 2012 #312 Posted March 13, 2012 Well now that there's more to know it's gonna drive me crazy till he posts more. (for those that know me yes I know you already think I'm crazy) Please don't wait too long. Can't wait for the pics too. Margaret
wes0778 Posted March 14, 2012 #313 Posted March 14, 2012 Well now that there's more to know it's gonna drive me crazy till he posts more. (for those that know me yes I know you already think I'm crazy) Please don't wait too long. Can't wait for the pics too. Margaret Now Margaret, you KNOW we don't think so!!! We KNOW so!!! :stirthepot::stirthepot: :rotf::rotf::rotf::rotf::rotf::rotf:
Guest tx2sturgis Posted March 26, 2012 #314 Posted March 26, 2012 Would the lady friend and/or you be interested in working as a volunteer at one or more of these events? http://www.buffalospringslaketriathlon.com Motorcycles make for very agile and useful support vehicles especially during the bicycle road course. And it makes for an interesting day...I can assure you of that.
massey130 Posted May 2, 2012 #315 Posted May 2, 2012 this is a great situation. friendships and helping people. that is one thing I like about this club.
PGunn Posted May 2, 2012 #317 Posted May 2, 2012 I saw this and had a thought what thread is the longest active thread on this site?
KIC Posted May 2, 2012 #318 Posted May 2, 2012 I saw this and had a thought what thread is the longest active thread on this site? Hmmmmm.... you gotta wonder...does she really exist...? No pictures....no updates..... anybody else ever really see her ...?.......... just thinkin'......
Flyinfool Posted May 2, 2012 #319 Posted May 2, 2012 There are pics in this thread somewhere. She was at a MC event somewhere once. also mentioned in this thread.
KIC Posted May 2, 2012 #320 Posted May 2, 2012 There are pics in this thread somewhere. She was at a MC event somewhere once. also mentioned in this thread. Are you trying to undermine my conspiracy theory ????????
reddevilmedic Posted May 2, 2012 #321 Posted May 2, 2012 i just wanted to see if i could get it to page 23! i really have nothing to say....
joboo Posted May 2, 2012 #323 Posted May 2, 2012 Have ya noticed that lil beaver has been posting and then when we bring this up he disappears for awhile? Me thinks he is hidin! SPILL Dude! We want details!
massey130 Posted May 3, 2012 #324 Posted May 3, 2012 maybe they are order parts for her scooter and can't quite decide what exactly to get or where to get them from. shirley there are parts needed after her crash. where was the X/B/F after the crash anyway n why was he eggin her out o' her comfert zone? that's a danger waiting in the dark - seems to me.
Guest tx2sturgis Posted May 28, 2012 #325 Posted May 28, 2012 Me thinks that Rick has gotten so much PM email over this, his inbox is full! I got this when I tried to send him a link:
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