Cinderella Posted November 4, 2008 #1 Posted November 4, 2008 we sat and sat and sat.......lol he was the very last case this morning..we were the very last people sitting in the courtroom... he saw us when he came in again but never ever looked our way again....he definately avoided us.....his lawyer didnt show today..supposedly had a medical emergency and never made it there. Prosecutors office said they had some issues with the case they want to get taken care of so they wanted next hearing in two weeks....so guess where we be in 2 weeks again... Ive got a call into our advocate at the prosecutors office to find out exactly what the issues are they want to take care of.....all i know of at this time would be the motion for bond reduction he has in........patience isnt one of my better traits.....
mini-muffin Posted November 4, 2008 #2 Posted November 4, 2008 Guess you're gonna need to work on that patience thing. Courts seem to run on their own time schedule. Kinda like going into the twilight zone. :bighug::bighug: Had to make it four huggies cause they are so small now. Margaret
krome rose Posted November 4, 2008 #4 Posted November 4, 2008 Obviously ,the judge waited for the lawyer to show. An interesting and stinky way to postpone a case, if the lawyer does it again he might be held in contempt. Just stick it out...the lawyer is trying to lessen the anger by lengthing the time until the case is heard. How's everyone else holding up? Brandy
BIG TOM Posted November 4, 2008 #5 Posted November 4, 2008 remember what i told you before..yes,it a whole different ballgame in the court system...i'm sure all is well...you'll do a lot af waiting before its all over with..its not un heard of for these things to last a year..judges have standards and goals..no one will get on his case to move things along until about 12 or 13 months..thats a fact..at least here in ny..again all will be ok in the end....
IH Truck Guy Posted November 5, 2008 #6 Posted November 5, 2008 Hang in there Cindy...YOU GUYS ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS EVERYDAY.
kenw Posted November 5, 2008 #7 Posted November 5, 2008 From past experience when it comes to court and the law, the crime comes second to the wallet! I lost a son at 19 years and can tell you what I' talkning about. What are 100 lawyers at the bottom of the ocean? A good start! Keep the faith and stay strong!! Kenw
Marcarl Posted November 5, 2008 #8 Posted November 5, 2008 This can be aweful frustrating, just go it one day at a time, and depend on the guidance from above, then you'll never go wrong. Bad things still happen, that's life, but help will be given to those who ask. Ask and it shall be given, seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be opened.
Cinderella Posted November 5, 2008 Author #9 Posted November 5, 2008 the prosecutors office called me back this morning......sounds like they are trying to get this moving.... they are waiting to hear back from the defense attorney....he hasnt returned their calls. the issues they want to get taken care of are that they want to try to get him to waive his preliminary trial ( hearing) and get the case moved to the circuit court. Reason being they want his dna..............finally !!! crime lab results came back from our daughter and they picked up something in her underclothing that isnt her dna. Ok guys we need some good carma and prayers that they pull this off and that the tests match ! She did warn me that it could take quite a while for the tests on his dna......so.........we keep on waiting. But at least I feel like things are moving a little now my only fear at this time is that because it was so many hours after the incident and she went to the bathroom numerous times, wiped, etc that anything would be gone. (To put it bluntly ..as im sure some of you are wondering...and i question whether i should say this here... there most likely are no sperm cells, as he didnt manage to complete that)
mini-muffin Posted November 5, 2008 #10 Posted November 5, 2008 I might be mistaken but I'm pretty sure they don't need just sperm for make a match with the DNA. As far as I know as long as there are cells there they should be able to test. Don't get discouraged as time goes on. You feel like it's moving now, don't be surprised if it slows down again too. Just hang in there. Margaret
Iowawegian Posted November 5, 2008 #11 Posted November 5, 2008 Just to let you know we're thinking of you daily! It's so hard to be patient, but it sounds like things are moving forward.
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